For many years I had just one thought on my mind it was my fault. My abuser reinforced this every time he saw me.
This is wrong.
I now see how wrong this is because I have altered my perceptions though therapy. I ask this question how can a child be blamed for what an adult has decided to do?
No child is to blame for abuse. The blame game is one of the sneaky tactics to hide their evil actions. Like other tactics like smearing I child’s name saying the child asked for it. We didn’t. Blame stands firmly in the court of the abuse.
so remember that you’re not to blame !!!!!